Monday, November 21, 2011

Just a little fall 2011 . . . Part II

After a couple of days in Sydney, we flew to Cairns, Queensland, Australia.  It's in the northeast corner of Australia and has some breathtaking coastline.  From Cairns, we rented a car and drove one and a half hours south to Mission Beach to a resort I found online.  This area, as well as most of Queensland, was hit by a major cyclone, Yazi, in February 2011.  All around the Mission Beach you could still see signs of the devastating storm damage.  We were told that Mission Beach was in the eye of the storm and there were at least two resorts that were so damaged that they would never reopen.  All along the beach near our resort, you could see the erosion of the beach and palm trees and other foliage that suffered from the high winds and surf.  Much of Queensland suffered major flooding and was still in the process of recovering and regaining tourism. 

We spent a quiet couple of days at Mission Beach.  The highlight was going deep sea fishing along the Great Barrier Reef.  As was the case in our fishing trip in New Zealand, I went along to document the big catch and Joe enjoyed a beautiful day of fishing.
 
We went out a small boat.  Dennis, the captain, was from South Africa.  We were joined by a family from Victoria, Australia - Craig and his two sons, Sam and Curtis.  It was a beautiful, sunny, clear day and the ride out to the reef was so peaceful.  The water is so blue and clear and in many areas you can see the reef in all its amazing glory.

The day was spent catching fish here and there - Red Coral Trout, Red Throated Emperor and various other species of reef fish.  Dennis also cast a line off the back of the boat that was watched throughout the day.  The first tug of that line, Sam took control of the line and fought for 30 minutes before pulling in a 50 pound Spanish Mackerel.

Sam and his 50 lb. Spanish Mackrel.

Curtis, Sam and Craig


Joe showing off one of his fish.

Our Captain Dennis with a red throated emperor

We spent the day going to different spots along the reef.  Joe finally got a chance at the line off the back of the boat.  Everyone was fishing off the sides of the boat when all of the sudden we heard this whirring noise from the back line.  Remember how the fishing line sounded in Jaws when the shark took the bait?  That's what it sounded like.  Joe got on the line and thus began his struggle with the "Big One".  He fought that line for almost an hour.  Our captain said we traveled around a half nautical mile and went from around 50 feet to over 100 feet of water.  We never saw that big guy.  After about 45 minutes the captain tightened up on the line and shortly afterward it snapped.  Joe was never ever able to get the fish to the surface.  It took the line and dove deep.  Our captain thinks it may have been around a 6-foot shark or possibly a black marlin.  We'll never know.  It will forever be the one that got away!  Here's a short video of Joe's fight.


What a wonderful day!  When we got back to resort with our fish, the restaurant chef cooked up a coral trout and the red throated emperor for our dinner.  He did a fantastic job!  The emperor was coated in sesame seeds, baked and served with vegetables and a soy/ginger sauce.  The trout was simply baked whole with citrus influence and served with vegetables.  Joe even gave the chef another trout to keep and cook as he desired.  Sunshine, The Great Barrier Reef, reef fishing and amazing meal = ONE FANTASTIC DAY!
 Next stop - Daintree Rainforest.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Just a little about fall 2011 . . . Part I

I didn't realize just how long it had been since I posted until I looked at the date of my last posting.   Since then (Sept. 3, 2011) fall has gone by in a flash.  It's like once we actually told the world we were definitely coming home FOR GOOD in December, things went into fast forward!

For the second year in a row, we celebrated Oktoberfest at the Kempinski Hotel in Chengdu with friends.  This year we had 38 people in our "little" group.  We had a wonderful evening of good food, free-flow Oktoberfest beer and even a band from Austria to entertain us.  Joe even won a beer downing contest.   What a fun-filled evening with good friends.

Oktoberfest, Chengdu, China - 2011

We took our last R&R in September.  We decided to go back to Australia, one of our favorite places to visit in all our travels over the past three years.  This time around it was a much more relaxed trip since we were returning.  

We started off with a few days in Sydney.  Since we had seen most of the sights on our trip in 2009, this time around was about enjoying being away from a sunless Chengdu and Joe's work.  We rode the ferry over to Manly Beach one day and spent the afternoon having lunch, watching the surfers and swimmers at the beach and enjoying the springtime sunshine.  We walked the streets of Sydney, taking in the street market of The Rocks area, enjoying a little Oktoberfest,  enjoying a beer and watching World Cup Rugby on the big screens on the harbour and having wonderful patio dinners along the harbours at night.

 Enjoying a beer, watching USA in World Cup Rugby
and enjoying the sights of Darling Harbour
 The seafood is amazing!  
Joe having grilled prawns our first night in Sydney

Just relaxing at Sydney Harbour
We spent our 32nd anniversary at a restaurant called Wildfire that sits on the Sydney Harbour.   We sat out on the patio with a breathtaking view of the Sydney Opera House across the water.  Our meal was a 900 gram Wagu beef t-bone steak that melted in your mouth!  You can't go wrong with the food in Sydney by any means!

  Happy
32nd Anniversary
to us!!!!
Creme Brulee! YUM!
Sydney Opera House across the water

Ferry ride to Manly Beach  

Manly Beach


 The Rocks street market

Oktoberfest at The Rocks

We loved Sydney, but next up we headed to Queensland, Australia for a few days of the Great Barrier Reef and the Daintree Rainforest.

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Just a little bit of news!

Just wanted let you all know that it is official!  Joe will not be extending his contract here in China.  We've decided it's time to come home.  Not sure at this point when the official move home date will be.  Possibly December.  We'll keep you posted.

Joe and I are excited to see what the next chapter will be for us!

Stay tuned . . .

Love to all!

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Just a liiiiitle fender bender!

On Friday, August 12,  I was heading into the city to spend the day.  Most Fridays, I have lunch in town, visit with friends and stay to have dinner out with Joe.  As an added incentive on this particular day, our neighborhood power was cut at 7:00 am that morning and would be off until 8:00 pm that night.

As usual, my driver picked me up and we headed into town.  Since I'm not driving and it's about a 30 minute commute into the city, I always take my Kindle along so I can read to pass the time.

Everything seemed normal until I remember hearing my driver, Tom, make a sound.  As I looked up there was a crash and exploding airbags in a matter of seconds.  Tom had rear ended a car.    Luckily Tom and I were wearing seat belts.  I had the wind knocked out me and was unable to respond to Tom for a few seconds until my lungs were able fill back up with air.  I felt like my whole midsection had been rearranged.  Tom released my seat belt and I was slowly able to get my breath back enough to tell him to call Joe immediately.  Tom was not injured and at that point, I wasn't sure if I was or not but I was hurting and afraid to move.  Tom got Joe on the phone and I was able to tell him to get to me as fast as he could and to bring the Global Doctor, from the expat medical facility in Joe's office building, with him.

A little side note.  One thing you don't want to do in China is do ANYTHING to draw attention.  We are constantly seeing accidents along the roadways, some minor but often times some very serious.  One thing they all have in common is an avid curiosity among the Chinese to get up close and personal with everything going on.  They aren't necessarily interested in helping but just want a front row seat to the happenings.  People stop what they are doing, cars stop on the road and people get out to look.

This day was no different.  As I sat there waiting for Joe to come, Tom tried to get the car doors open to get some air circulating into the car.  Due to the impact of the crash,  the car had been compressed back to the point that he had to forcibly pull the car doors open.   All of the airbags had deployed in the car so the side airbags were down along the side windows and he rolled them up to get air in.  At one point I looked to my left out the car window to see at least four Chinese people with their cell phones taking pictures of the car and me inside the car.  I almost lost it and was calling for Tom to get the people away and shut the doors and pull the airbags back down.  A little later I remember looking out the front windshield and seeing more people standing at the front of the car taking pictures.  I must note that that NONE of these people were in any way involved in the accident.

While waiting for Joe to arrive (his office is about 20 minutes away), an ambulance arrived, stayed a few minutes and then was gone.  I don't remember seeing anyone put into the ambulance but I was later told two people from the other car were taken to the hospital.  I remember the ambulance coming up close to our car but no one ever came over to check on me.  With the state my driver was in, I probably wouldn't have been able to communicate with them anyway and I certainly wasn't going to go anywhere with them at that point since Joe had not arrived.

Joe finally arrived with his office manager, Josie, to translate, as well as one of the Global Doctors and a nurse.  From that point I felt better knowing Joe was there to take care of things.  I was in pain in my midsection and a little nervous at the thought of having to go to a Chinese hospital to get checked out.  Another ambulance finally arrived.  I was able to get myself out of the car to get on the gurney and was put into the ambulance.  Joe was able to ride with me.

That was the worst ride of my life.  I was not strapped onto the gurney, it was a rattling, bumpy 10-15 minute ride and I thought it would never end.  We finally arrived at the hospital, People's # 1 Hospital.  This designation does not in any way imply that it is the best hospital in Chengdu.  Here we were met by a representative of Parkway Medical that adjoins the hospital.  This is also an expat medical facility.   My view of the hospital was of the ceiling so I can't really describe much about the emergency room.  I will say that Joe later told me he looked up to see several people standing at the foot of my bed in the emergency room looking on.  When Joe asked the Parkway Health doctor if they were medical personnel, he replied no.  Joe immediately asked that they be removed from the area.  Such nosiness for a laowai (foreigner)!

One good thing was that I was immediately taken to get a CT scan.  I think I was actually put ahead of several waiting for the same procedure.   I don't remember much about the ride except this wonderful little Chinese nurse that was by my side holding my hand and being reassuring.  She was dressed in a white nurses uniform dress complete with little white nurses hat.  She had on a mask, not sure what she thought she would catch from me.  One thing I did notice though was no one was wearing gloves.  Hmmm.  When we got to the CT room they attempted to pick me up to transfer me onto the table.  Laugh!  In frustration, I finally said I would get myself onto the table.  The table had apparently seen many that day already as there were shoe prints and other indications that I was certainly NOT the first person to be on lying on that sheet.   Although it did not take long for the scans, it was painful because I was told to hold my breath and not move.  In pain and still having some breathing problems, this was a little hard to do.

After the scans I was taken to the Parkway Health facility where I would wait for the results of the scans.  I was placed in the care of the doctors there and spent the rest of the afternoon waiting.  I will say I got good care and felt in good hands at that point.  While we were waiting for the results, Joe was able to return to his office to pack up his things and I was able to just sleep off the morning.

We finally got back the scan results.  They are amazing films of the midsection of my body and included a detailed, all angle look at my ribs.  There was no damage or ribs broken.  I was told I would just be sore for the next several days.

In the meantime, Joe had gotten another car and driver from the car agency and he was coming back to the clinic.  That car broke down in the middle of a street on a Friday afternoon in Chengdu traffic.  He waited for another car to come, but finally hailed a cab to get back to the clinic.  He was told there were no other cars available and they were looking for another vehicle for us.  I was released to go home but we did not want to have to take a Chengdu cab home.  We finally got another car and got home around 6:00.  My day had started from home at 9:30!  Good news was our electricity had come back on early!

Over the next several days my body went through various stages of soreness and bruising.  When I had my seat belt on, as usual I had the shoulder part under my arm instead of properly over my shoulder.  As the days progressed, my bruising has changed significantly where the seat belt was against my body.  At any given time I have been black, blue, purple, red, yellow and green.  Picture a terrain map with the designated highs and lows in different colors.  That's me.  Although I had no broken ribs, my ribcage has been quite sore.  You'd just be amazed how that part of your body is affected by things as simple as yawning, sneezing, coughing and laughing.

Looking back, I told Joe it was probably a good thing that I didn't know what was about to happen.  I had no time to react and that probably kept me from being injured anymore than I was.  If I had seen what was coming, I probably would have put up my hands and arms or braced my feet for impact, tensing up my body which might have caused me to break a bone or have more serious injuries.

I'm on the mend but still have the seat belt markings.  I hope I never have to go through something like this again here in China or even back at home.  Here in China we must place our lives in another person's hands and pray for safety on unsafe roads where very few road rules are bothered to be observed.   We're still trying find out what actually happened.  Our driver is vague on the details.  One thing Joe observed at the scene was the lack of skid marks on the road for our car.  I don't remember Tom breaking before impact.  We think the car was going about 45 mph on impact.  We're still trying to find out about our car and trying to decide if we want to continue to have Tom drive us.  The agency told Joe it would take two weeks to fix our car.  Joe has told them the car should be totaled and we would not feel safe again in it.  Not sure what the result will be.  We will probably try out another driver before we decide about Tom.

Below is a picture of our car and the car Tom hit from behind.  In hindsight, I wish we had thought to take our own photos.  At the time, I wasn't in any condition to do so and Joe was handling everything else.  Only later did we think about it.   Joe says our car is much more damaged than the photo indicates.
Our Car
The other car
Seat belts and airbags save lives.  I don't even want to think what my injuries might have been had I not been wearing my seat belt, all be it improperly.  I am much more conscious of wearing it properly now and still a little apprehensive when I get into any car. 

Love to all!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Just a little more 4th of July, 2011-Part II

On Sunday most of the family went home.  Our nephews, Scott and Greg, came down to spend the day.  Joe's brother and sister-in-law, Pete and Sandy, came later in the day and spent the night.

On Monday, 4th of July, Joe's sister, Karen, came to spend the day with us.  We also welcomed Joe's old friend from Germany, Glenn and his family, wife, Cindy, and kids, Andrew and Lydia.  We also had old friends, Jeff and Laurie, and their daughter, Whitney.  

We enjoyed the day catching up with old friends and spending time with them.  We had another fun-filled day on the lake taking turns on the tubes.  I finally got out on one with Joe.  Our friend, Jeff was driving.  I'll just say that he is one crazy driver and I thought I was going to die.  For the most part I managed to stay on but Joe went flying on a wave.  That in turn sent me off balance.  Way to go Joe!
Karen, Pete and Sandy
Andrew, Lydia and Glenn
Jeff, Laurie and Whitney
Kim and Joe
By the next day all company had gone and we had a busy but quiet day to ourselves.  We had to get things all put back and cleaned before our departure.  Joe just had a few more days left before going back to Chengdu.  We got the house and boat cleaned.  Got the boat put in storage.  With no rain, the lake levels were beginning to get very low and we couldn't keep the boat at the dock.  
We have such a great time when we are at the lake.  Something we look forward to every time we come home now.

Our trip home was winding down.  Joe was scheduled to leave, I was staying on for an extra week to dog sit for Jay and Ashley while they were on vacation.

On a sad note, my sweet aunt, Dorothy, died on July 8.  As I was putting Joe on a plane back to China I was getting ready to say good bye to my aunt.  Although it was a sad time, it was so good to see family and friends that I hadn't seen in many years.   My aunt was loved by many people and their love was present in all that came to say good bye to her.  I was also able to spend some extra time with my mom and dad, as well as with Paul, Candice and Talon.

Before heading back to Chengdu I made one more trip to the lakehouse.   Talon and Joe's stepmother, Susan, went with me for the day.  We had an old tree in the yard that had died and we had to have it cut down.  It was so sad to see that tree go.  It added to much to place and it was estimated to be around 80 or 90 years old.  Taking the old tree down completed changed the view from our house.
Going
Going
Gone
Talon and Susan
I came back to Chengdu on July 17th.  One week after coming home, I got a call that my poodle, Toodles, 15 1/2 years old had begun having seizures.  On July 29 she died.  It was so hard to be so far away when she died.  I had her with me for so long and leaving her when we came to China was very hard to do.  She will be missed.
Toodles - 1996-2011
Hoping to come home in October.  Until then . . .

Love to all!

Just a little bit more summer, 4th of July, 2011- Part I

We had a great time spending 4th of July at the lakehouse this summer.  For the past two summers we have been in Chengdu and you just can't get that American holiday spirit in China.  With doctors appointments behind us, we headed out for a whole week at the lakehouse.  That's something Joe and I have been looking forward to since we got the place.  It was also more special having the boat there.

We spent a couple of days getting things ready for family that we would be having over the weekend.  We finally got some patio furniture and chairs for the decks and boat dock.  I even tackled mowing the lot.  It took me about two hours with a push mower!  Good thing I started at 7:30 in the morning because it was HOT!   It's beginning to look like the place is actually occupied now. 
Raising the flags
Every morning
On Thursday, Kelli and Pam came down a little early.  We spent the day doing some shopping for the house and enjoying the lake.  Joe took Kelli out and showed her how to drive the boat.  She even got Joe up on the slalom ski.  It was so relaxing getting out on the water before the rush of the holiday weekend.
Kelli driving the boat
Pammie!


On Friday, Doug, Paul, Candice and Talon came down.  We had a great time on Friday night just spending family time together.  It was a trip watching Doug, Kelli, Paul and Joe playing a crazy game (name censored).  Paul and Joe are so competitive and it was hilarious watching them trying to one-up each other.
Doug and Teener just chillin'
Our family and their CRAZY games!
Saturday brought the rest of the family and some dear friends.  We had Jay and Ashley, my Mom and Dad, Doug's grandmother, Ashley's parents, Jay's friend, Justin and my nephew, Wade with his family, Sarah and the boys, Clayton, Drew and baby Owen.  In addition, we had Toodles, Riley, Nelson and Teener, the family dogs.   With everyone there, it was fast becoming the place Joe and I dreamed of having when we bought the place.  Our dream was to have a place where family and friends could come and relax and enjoy the lake.  We had a fun-filled day out in the water, on the boat and riding the tubes, wake board and knee board.  We grilled and topped off the day with cakes and pies, homemade ice cream, watermelon and watched the fireworks over the lake from the upper deck.
Papa Joe and Talon on the boat



Jay, Justin and Ashley

Drew, Talon, Clayton
Mom and Dad

Just a catnap.  The lake can wear you out!



Drew, Clayton and Talon on the boat

Sy and Jay
Nana


Nelson
This is the life!
Homemade ice cream!
Fireworks
Cousins - a couple of times removed!
Baby Owen
Watching fireworks
Jay and Nelson
Watermelon, yum!


 By the end of the day many had gone home but the best part of the day was my whole family under one roof for the night.  It's been a long time since we have all spent the night in one place and it was such a joy to have us all together!

Tomorrow - we get ready for another wave of guests!  It's GREAT to be home!

Love to all!